My #fiancée and I are set to get married. She has told me she sees no reason why she should take my surname.
I believe she should be proud to, but she says she doesn’t see any reason why she has to give up her “individuality.”
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She has offered to hyphenate our surnames, but I think that’s just ridiculous. I am a traditional man and I find her attitude irritating.
If she’s not going to be proud to take my name, I’m not sure I want to go through with the wedding.
Muazu, by e-mail.
Is there more to this #relationship than a name change? You need to really sit with your fiancée and have a heart-to-heart about your expectations of marriage and of each other, before setting a wedding date.
It looks as if there might be a major mismatch here that could cause problems in future.
You described yourself as traditional (and I’m guessing also quite conservative), which usually means you have set ideas on how a wife should behave.
Your fiancée wants to maintain her independence and may see marriage as more of an equal partnership than the conventional man-is-boss model.
This is not a good sign for future happiness, when you’re not prepared to compromise by hyphenating your surnames.
It is, after all, a meeting-in-the middle solution. You’ve got a lifetime of decisions to make together, which are far more important.
All should be made as joint decisions with each of you prepared to meet in the middle.
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